I'm going by the things she was talking about, though we could of be related.
I suppose she died in the 90's because she talked about things about 80's and 90's, and when we were in a town ruined by the war -that was led in the 90's- she stared at one burned down house, mumbled stuff like "it's in", "burning", "can't get out,no", "find them" and stuff like that. I didn't pay much attention then,thinking that it's just kid imagination,but it could be real too. And we're back in that country, so we'll be going to that town again, too. I talked to her about past lifes and she says she has dreams of a war and they seem very real, but that she doesn't know anything about past lifes. So I gave her some stuff to read about past lifes and she said that she'll see if she feels or remembers anything when we're back there.
She also had a very irrational fear of fire and war when she was younger.
She seems to remember much more of that life than I can remember about mine.
I don't think she's lying. Well a 4 year old wouldn't even know how to make a confusing scene.
It's kinda weird but..I thought I'd ask about it here,since I don't know much about this either.