I'm rotten with surnames, have to get them told to me, unless I can get them from the fact the person was called by their surname (so that from Beckey's life I know "Corky"/Corchran but don't know his first name consciously). I have trouble remembering the surnames of people I know nowadays unless it's say, my boss, whose name might appear regularly in full on business cards or something. I like my surnames (maiden and married) and my first name in this life. I object strongly to being called "Terry", but that would be a natural nickname. I hate being called that though. Zeta, I believe you are right about names sometimes (I don't know how often) reflecting personalities (or maybe we grow into the personality that fits our name, or maybe both?). My name is Teresa which goes extremely well with many things (some of which I can't write about yet) and relates to a Greek parallel life and some other parallels. I don't wish to be female, feel I'm not female in my spirit, but on the other hand I doubt I'd ever want to change my name.
I have trouble with surnames like I said and while Bruce was Beckey's first name and Beckey comes from his last name, I'm not positive on the Sobieski surname. It is _something_ like that. That's a common Americanization. I got an impression the other day that I should think about this some more and in that case got Sobecki. I don't know yet.
I only know that it's remotely possible for me to get names at all because in three instances I got a name from a dead person I was talking to (once with the surname!

). Then I could verify those particular names later (once with the person whom the dead person's message was for and twice with websites). But I'm rotten with names and eye color, don't know why.

Wish I wasn't. I want _every detail_ and I want it _right_ because I love the people so much and don't want to screw it up, but I do anyway. I mess up things about current-life friends, forgetting where they are now or what they're doing, what kind of work or whatever, but I don't seem to forget things such as their declared favorite songs, for some reason.
I am having frustration and sadness about my memories lately and wish I were better able to tell what I'm supposed to be doing. I'm sort of "starting over" because it's real important to my most intense past-life self that I get this right and get him over it. I got the Bruce name again in starting over. I think my Wild-West past life name was Theodore, called Teddy mostly or Theo, but if I do know the surname it's not consciously associated with him (it could be something I know but don't know it, which is often the case for me).
The names of some people deeply important to me in Beckey's life have affected me in this life before I knew why consciously (Rose and Rosemary, Corky, Valentin, Sheffield, Victor or Wictor, Luciano or Lukey).