No more privacy

[spacely]

If Souls use telepathy to communicate and remote viewing to see, and they can see us but we can't see them, do you see a problem here?

Our loved ones die first, they go to the afterlife and they can see all of our personal dealings and thoughts for decades. Then we die to join them and find out they've invaded our privacy for so many years that the relationship isn't the same as the way it used to be. They have the advantage because they died first.

If this invasion of privacy is happening, how is everybody getting over it, and still maintaining the same original personalities?

 

[Totoro]

I.. don't think they would voluntarily violate our privacy and I also would like to think anyway, that we have some sort of conscious cohesion in that people can't walk into and out of each other's memories and thoughts.

I also think, or again would like to think that as souls and loved ones, there wouldn't be any judgement.

I can't see, on the other side, families carrying on arguments. Or maybe they do.. I know many of my family's old issues from our last lives were still quite present in this one. Thankfully we've all gotten past them.

 

[baro-san]

My understanding is that we-here are roles that we-there chose to play, with the intention to further our-there development. These roles are backed by probabilities that result from those same roles played before by others. We-here have access to that information, but most of us-here aren't evolved enough (yet) and use it sparsely. Due to our-here as well as our-there free-will of choice while playing these roles, our-here experiences aren't predetermined.

We-there aren't the we-here, as an actor isn't the role he plays.

 

[Totoro]

I think role taking is part of it, but I'm from an Asian family (our structure has been the same from what I can tell for several lifetimes) and from what I've seen over many years on here is that most Western people simply go where they want to, life after life and there isn't much in the way of family reincarnation and maybe that's where the idea of playing roles come from. Simply because they lack a family structure to evolve with.

I'm not saying one is better or worse, but that the same need is being fulfilled in different ways.

 

[melon04]

I.. don't think they would voluntarily violate our privacy and I also would like to think anyway, that we have some sort of conscious cohesion in that people can't walk into and out of each other's memories and thoughts.

I also think, or again would like to think that as souls and loved ones, there wouldn't be any judgement.

I can't see, on the other side, families carrying on arguments. Or maybe they do.. I know many of my family's old issues from our last lives were still quite present in this one. Thankfully we've all gotten past them.

If they truly loved you, then there is no reason to believe they would ever do something that makes you uncomfortable in the first place.