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My two and a half year old, Amy told me she was in another car 'before' and said she sat in the drivers seat. ( She has only ever sat in the back in her carseat). Last week when her grandmother was explaining things to her she kept saying, "I know Nanny I know". Her Grandmother said "how do you know so much?" to which she replied
"the man" tells her. "What man?" says Nanny... "The man behind my eyes, he tells me when I am sleeping". When her older sister asked about the man she said some times there are "two mans behind her eyes." She found two pennies on the floor. She told me she wanted to put them on her eyes and i asked why. She said she had two pennies on her eyes when she was sleeping before she was a baby. We have been told by total strangers that she is an old soul...She was impatient to walk and talk and has been so much more "settled" since she was able to do those things. She is incredibly sensitive to loud noises ie; vaccuum cleaners, lawnmowers, loud music.. and becomes totally hysterical when we wash her hair... she is a very unusual child... totally unlike my other two...any suggestions???


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Wow, Susan, that's very interesting about your daughter. What kind of information was her Grandmother giving her that she already "knew?" It does sound to me as though she could be an "old soul." The "men behind her eyes" may be her guides, those very old souls from heaven who aid the soul in spiritual growth. I've read that many people have more than one guide. Have you ever asked her why the loud noises or washing her hair scares her? It might also be very informative to ask her more questions about "before she was a baby," such as where she lived and so forth. Also, I'm wondering whether any religions or cultures have a practice of applying something circular over the eyes? That would be something interesting to research.

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Diane
 
It used to be a common funeral practice to put pennies over the eyes of the corpse. This weight helped keep the eyes closed during the wake or visitation time that was held in the person's home.
 
Diane, I am sorry I guess I just took it for granted that it was general knowledge about putting pennies on the eyes of the deceased in the "olden days". So far she has not explained why she is ultra sensitive to noise and afraid to have her hair washed. I read a previous post by some one who said swinging them can put them into a state to talk about these things. I am going to try this ASAP. Usually she talks about things 'out of the blue'. Some times it is as if she clams up if i make a point to try to get her to talk about these things. She picks her own opportunitys to bring up the subject.
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Many kids that age hate getting their hair washed. My wife said she put up a fuss when she was that age. My boy is three and he hates getting his face washed. She could have gotten some shampoo in her eyes and she's afraid of getting her hair washed. When some gets in my daughter or son's hair they are afraid of getting their hair washed for the longest time.

Have you tried different shampoos? Have you tried washing the hair with just plain water?

There are techniques to not getting any shampoo in the kid's eyes - I can help w/ them. Getting a short haircut for her will help.

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I have been coming to this forum to look at some more progress from susan about her daughter. Susan is there any thing more interesting happening with your daughter? Are you able to relate with her stories better? any thing about her? let us know

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naveen
 
DaveV, in regards to the hair washing, I do know that most kids are not wild about having their hair washed. I have two teenagers, and I have worked in the personal-care field for over 15 years. Amy doesn't like the sound of the running water or of water being poured into the tub. This isn't the usual "upset hairwashing child", this is sheer terror...! It is very hard to describe, but it takes two of us to wash her hair. She has only now just started to enter the bathroom if someone was in the shower.. She used to run for cover. She also hides from the Vacuum and any kind of car or motorcycle motor. My other two kids, I could vaccuum under their cribs. She appears to be ultra sensitive to 'noise', and this cumulatively with her personality traits and 'memories', makes for an unusual child. So my problem with the hair wasn't the problem, to me it is a symptom of what ever Amy is experiencing or has experienced in a former life.
My husband and I have developed a routine in which he and I wash her hair in identically the same way every time, The same jug for the water, shampoo, and he holds her the same way while I support her head. This is helping but I still feel her ultra sensitivity is a guide post of what she has been or seen before. Thanks for the hints though!!! Susan
 
Dear Susan,
With all the poisons in the food and the environment these days, the rates for ADHD and autism are skyrocketing. The rate in California has doubled in five years. In some areas like Silicon Valley, one kid out of every 250 is Autistic. My son is autistic and my daughter is ADHD. My son was so agressive he was about to be thrown out of Church nursery. We put him on a special diet developed by University of New York, Syracuse I learned about through someone else in this forum and his behavior changed in about 48 hours. I wouldn't have believed the difference if I hadn't seen it with my own eyes. We've since put him on a very restricted diet that is as much as possible California certified organic. He is now progressing and has stopped with many of the autistic behaviors. An incredible difference.

Hopefully your kid has none of this, but it may be worth a try especially if your kid seems to be "slipping backwards" in development. I can give details and reference off line if you're interested.

This isn't the usual "upset hairwashing child", this is sheer terror...! It is very hard to describe, but it takes two of us to wash her hair[ ...] She also hides from the Vacuum and any kind of car or motorcycle motor.
 
I am wondering how you are approaching this. Are you still asking questions to your little girl? Are you trying NOT to ask leading questions? This is all very interesting. Actually, you could use hypnosis, yourself. It's not all that difficult. Have you consulted with a pastlife therapist? Perhaps he/she could shed more light on this. It would be VERY enlightening to all of us here.
 
Thanks for both replies. Dave (thankfully) she is not 'slipping' in any way. (as a side note, I work with adults who are labelled as developementally disabled) So I know where your concerns lie. When she expresses a fear we try to help her deal with it, by explaining what it is and why she is hearing this noise. We tell her some people are scared of the noise too. She seems to be consolled by this.

Robert; I have asked leading questions to the extent that I say "How did you sleep?" "Was the Man behind your eyes?" "did he tell you things" etc... she talks about him then. I asked her what he looked like. "we are caucasian" I said is his hair brown like daddies, or orange like (big sister)? she said "no it is black" I said "what about his eyes are they blue or green like yours or mine?" She said no they are "blacky-black" I said "what about his skin?" and she said he looks like "candy" I said "candy?" she said "like a chocolate bar." To me she is describing a black person. This to me is very telling because there is a very small population of black people in our community and although she sees many different types of people on TV, this is not what I expected her to answer. I asked her if he looked like a friend of hers who is Phillipina, and she said no, blacker. I don't know if he is a spirit guide, or guardian angel. I do know he is definitely a part of our lives. I tell her she is very lucky to have a man behind her eyes.

As for previous questions about what she was reading with her grandmother, it was a book about old fashioned airplanes and boats, like bi-planes and masted ships. She is fascinated by these....
 
Hi everyone.... Just an update. My two year old daughter told me, my husband and older daughter that one time she fell on a curtain, banged her head over her eye and went to sleep. She said she flew up to the sun and when she woke up she was a baby and was sad and cried and cried and wanted mommy and daddy.
 
Susan - JB is right that it was common practice (within the last 100 years, even) to place pennies over the eyes of the dead to keep the eyes shut.

Also, I have to respond about the hair-washing. My guess is that she previously died by drowning, possibly even at the hand of another human being. In either case, it was traumatic enough for her to carry it over into this life. I believe regression could really help her get through this.
 
Re the earlier comments regarding the practice of putting coins over the eyes of someone. As I understood it the idea was that the coins represented payment to Charon to ferry the dead person across the river Styx safely to the "otherside". I could be wrong but that was my understanding. Incidentally, my grandmother did just this when her husband died in the early 1960's.
 
I am back...


well Amy is now 15.


She truly is an indigo child.


when she was little, she had many 'imaginary' friends. We were able to identify them.


Dustin: a little friend.. often the guilty party when a wall got coloured or when a mess was made.


CC... i think was the black Spirit guide, and he was very large, but quiet and didn't 'get in the way' much.


Goldie: neither identified as male or female. was always over Amy's shoulder and telling her things... Was tanned and dressed in gold robes and had golden hair.


White White: Female, dressed all in white.. very pale. Amy often thought White white was blind but could see her with her heart.


Whenever we went on Errands all four of them plus Amy would pile into the backseat of my teeny little car. Amy was very concerned that we not forget one of them. She would leave a toy in the car for CC to keep him company, as CC didn't always accompany us to the park or shopping as the others did.


We spoke of all of them as though they were true human forms although Amy knew we couldn't see them.


Amy told us she remembered being a little girl, but dressed like a boy. She was laying in a river, underwater, dead and looking up towards the sky and seeing a red car on a bridge above her.. she was never able to tell us why she was under the water. ((Probably why she hated having her hair washed))


Slowly Amy forgot her memories of her Guides and Angels ... although a year or so ago, she said, "Mom, did I used to have a friend named Goldie?" I told her about her spirit guides who are still with her, but harder for Amy to see. She believes it.


She is extremely artistic, and doesn't fit in totally in school. She now attends an alternate school. Amy is amazingly different than her siblings yet is very tuned in to peoples energies and emotions. (a true sensitive)


I go to meditation, and various healing and psychic activities, and Amy is not quite ready to accompany me, although, she has the interest of my psychic.
 
Susan Harrison said:
Amy is amazingly different than her siblings yet is very tuned in to peoples energies and emotions. (a true sensitive)
Hi Susan!


Thank you so much for giving us this update on Amy. I can't tell you how important it is for us to receive such information after so many years. Watching her grow up with her siblings must be a profoundly magical experience that has changed and expanded your own life in ways that are beyond description.


I wonder if you have read many of the examples of children who remember their past lives in Carol's books, and whether you find significant consistency among such stories? How has your experience changed your own spiritual outlook?
 
Thank you for the update Susan. Nice to see you back. :D


Your first post was 1999. #G^H
 
Thank you for the update.


I find it interesting that in 1999 the autistic rate was 1 in 250. Today I think it is 1 in 120. That is scary.
 
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