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Is my new born boy my oldest son?

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mohy7

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Hi everyone
I am completely new to the whole idea of reincarnation and want with my whole heart to believe it’s true and especially to believe my new 1 month old boy is my oldest son returning to me!!
I lost my only two kids in a terrible car accident a year ago. My only two boys , 4 year old and 2 months old baby.
The first thing my husband told me after the accident when we were in hospital was that we will bring them back!! Not him nor me had never even heard about reincarnation then!! So thinking about it later we don’t even know what brought him to say that!!!But it was the only hope that kept us alive. There are no words to describe the pain we endured and the shock and denial we went through!
Although I was severely injured I fell pregnant few months later. Baby was a boy as I so badly wanted and due exactly on the anniversary day of the accident!!!! What are the chances?!?!
During the pregnancy me and many close friends of us saw very special dreams. I dreamt once seeing him trying to enter my body, another friend saw my older boy giving her an ultrasound image saying “this is me” , and another friend saw my older boy playing in a park and then telling her happily that he is waiting for mummy to pick him up!!!
A month ago my baby was born 2 weeks early so not on the exact anniversary day of the accident but exactly on the time of the accident 3.30pm!!!! My older son was also born 2 weeks early!!!And with the exact birth mark my older son had on his bum which shocked us massively!!!!
I had done a lot of reading around the net about signs of a reincarnated soul and came across these: 1- some relation between time or day or month of death and rebirth 2- similar birth mark or a birth defect at the site of the causation of death 3- baby speaking about past memories 4- new soul filling the emotional gap...
This new baby looks very similar to my older sons newborn photos and also has a wee chip off his right ear lobe which I am relating to the hit my older son had to his head on the right as this is how the accident had happened .
I am feeling so much better since his arrival and have finally found some hope and joy which was all gone from my life.
Some other things like this new baby’s cord fell off on his 10th day exactly like my older son and two trees we had planted in my sons memory at home and also at his daycare which both flowered when baby was born .
I would really appreciate your thoughts and opinions as experts in this area??? Is he really my older son returning to me?? Or am I just unconsciously looking for things and putting things together to actually believe what I so deeply want to be true? ???
 
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I'm no expert, but I'm truly sorry for your losses. In an attempt to answer your questions, I'd say that it appears to me that there is a very good chance that your thinking is indeed valid. Although I doubt that anyone here could say "definitely" that it is, what you have experienced matches with others. I don't think that you are just hoping without justification - it sounds like your husband was spot-on.

Blessings to you
 
Hi mohy7,

Welcome to the forum!

You've been living the nightmare of any parent: losing your children. I feel so sorry to read your story.

Personally, based on what you write about your newborn son, I would conclude that he came back to you. It's beautiful to read how it happened. I hope you'll find a way to cope with all the emotions of your recent trauma. I remember the story of a mother who gave birth twice to the same boy and although they both knew it and the boy often talked about his first time with her, she still mourned for her first child. So that's not strange even when you believe in reincarnation.

I hope you already found your way to similar stories in the section
Children's Past Lives -Age 7 & under

Wishing you all the best,
 
Thanks so much for your comment.
It gives me hope when other people also believe my thoughts. Then I don’t think I’m going crazy!
 
hey mohy7,
:( I´m so sorry for your loss! I think it´s quite possible your older son returned to you, like the others already told you, it´s even quite likely. Just open up your heart and enjoy the little one! Wish you the best!
 
how horrible, tragic and how strong you must be to have survived this. very touching with the story of your third baby. I think too that it could very well be the spirit of your former child, will be really interesting for you as your child grows to know more. There has been one case that came to mind , the Pollock twins (link: https://www.historicmysteries.com/pollock-twins/ ) wish you the best too.
 
Thank you all so much for your comments
I have read the suggested threads
All amazing stories
I guess I’ll have to hold on to my hopes and wait until he starts speaking hoping he will remember things and talk about them to prove my hopes are not just hopes but real...
 
That is undoubtedly one of your sons. There are just too many signs, especially the due date. When accidents happen sometimes they are truly accidents and not our time. The huge urge to be together again is on both sides! That strong pull would make one of them return as fast as possible. I am just curious who. You will get more hints as he grows. I am so happy he returned to you !
 
Mohy ,this is a very interesting post as it is rings true and sincere . I would like to help you if I can . I do not believe in itself that reincarnation
is beneficial unless the soul is being directed by a higher , holy power .I am a Christian ,and believe that at death God judges us, and gives us
a programme for each life until we are perfected ,or judged, finally .
You new baby maybe your dear lost boy ,and usually more advanced pure souls come back more quickly . I have a sister who died and am
sure it was her coming back after 18 mnths .The new girl has the exact same sidereal ascendant as had my sister and more .Normally although
the planets change, the Ascendant characterises the person more than any other thing in the chart ,so the ascendant of the new baby would probably have the same ASC Sign as your previous child .

Yes it is a great comfort to know that those we have loved and lost are only 'recycled 'in our lives; :) .This baby of yours is also born in the final sign of
Pisces ,the most spiritual of all the signs . Jesus said unless were born again of fire and water you cannot enter the 'kingdom '.Pisces is the final sign
and represents the vast ocean ,and Agape love and more .

Hoping for your new future a blessed and deep happiness, Theresa
 
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Mohy ,this is a very interesting post as it is rings true and sincere . I would like to help you if I can . I do not believe in itself that reincarnation
is beneficial unless the soul is being directed by a higher , holy power .I am a Christian ,and believe that at death God judges us, and gives us
a programme for each life until we are perfected ,or judged, finally .
You new baby maybe your dear lost boy ,and usually more advanced pure souls come back more quickly . I have a sister who died and am
sure it was her coming back after 18 mnths .The new girl has the exact same sidereal ascendant as had my sister and more .Normally although
the planets change, the Ascendant characterises the person more than any other thing in the chart ,so the ascendant of the new baby would probably have the same ASC Sign as your previous child .

Yes it is a great comfort to know that those we have loved and lost are only 'recycled 'in our lives; :) .This baby of yours is also born in the final sign of
Pisces ,the most spiritual of all the signs . Jesus said unless were born again of fire and water you cannot enter the 'kingdom '.Pisces is the final sign
and represents the vast ocean ,and Agape love and more .

Hoping for your new future a blessed and deep happiness, Theresa
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Sorry I don’t know anything about astrology but just did a web search. I found my older son was a Virgo and my newborn Cancer, does this different sign mean he won’t be reincarnation of my older son??? how did you say my newborn is a Pisces???
Would love to know more about the relation of astrology and reincarnation???
 
mohy7 said:
Sorry I don’t know anything about astrology but just did a web search. I found my older son was a Virgo and my newborn Cancer, does this different sign mean he won’t be reincarnation of my older son??? how did you say my newborn is a Pisces???
Would love to know more about the relation of astrology and reincarnation???
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Hello mohy7 sorry to be so long in replying . For me the "heavens" are Gods way of regulating the universe (as it says in the bible ) ,but a lot of different opinions on this subject make me wary of going into detail , for example you say your new born is cancer , and your other son virgo .
Hoever according to the stars this may not be so if you are talking of tropical signs .

I thought you said he was born end of march ;but clearly I am mistaken .
There are so many interesting stories here as you can see , and I hope they are helping you to get a clearer picture .

In my experience the ascendant sign is usually the same for each rebirth ,while the planets change .For that; a time as well as a date is needed .
However I would be careful not to put too much into this child because of your loss , and then be disappointed if it is not a rebirth of your lost child ..

If you wish to give details we can look at both ascendants for both children to see if there is anything interesting .


with best wishes ,Theresa
 
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Hello mohy7 sorry to be so long in replying . For me the "heavens" are Gods way of regulating the universe (as it says in the bible ) ,but a lot of different opinions on this subject make me wary of going into detail , for example you say your new born is cancer , and your other son virgo .
Hoever according to the stars this may not be so if you are talking of tropical signs .

I thought you said he was born end of march ;but clearly I am mistaken .
There are so many interesting stories here as you can see , and I hope they are helping you to get a clearer picture .

In my experience the ascendant sign is usually the same for each rebirth ,while the planets change .For that; a time as well as a date is needed .
However I would be careful not to put too much into this child because of your loss , and then be disappointed if it is not a rebirth of your lost child ..

If you wish to give details we can look at both ascendants for both children to see if there is anything interesting .


with best wishes ,Theresa
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Hi Theresa
I would really appreciate your help
My newborn was due on the 30th of March the exact anniversary day of the accident but was born 2 weeks early but at the exact time of the accident
So here are some details :
My oldest son was born on 28/9/13 at 5.40 am
My newborn was born on 14/3/19 at 3.30 pm

Also some people think there is a relation between death and rebirth day and time so
The accident happened on 30/3/18 at 3.30pm

Looking forward to hearing back from you
 
mohy7 said:
Hi Theresa
I would really appreciate your help
My newborn was due on the 30th of March the exact anniversary day of the accident but was born 2 weeks early but at the exact time of the accident
So here are some details :
My oldest son was born on 28/9/13 at 5.40 am
My newborn was born on 14/3/19 at 3.30 pm

Also some people think there is a relation between death and rebirth day and time so
The accident happened on 30/3/18 at 3.30pm

Looking forward to hearing back from you
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Mohy , I am very wary of doing this as the main lesson we have to learn is to love and pray with a pure heart . It is this that gives 'eternal life ',
and I hope your new baby will be loved even if reincarnation is not found in this case . I will see what I can find ,but it may not be what you are looking for .
 
The last age. said:
Mohy , I am very wary of doing this as the main lesson we have to learn is to love and pray with a pure heart . It is this that gives 'eternal life ',
and I hope your new baby will be loved even if reincarnation is not found in this case . I will see what I can find ,but it may not be what you are looking for .
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Mohy ,I did the charts for both births ,but don't know how accurate they are as there is no place of birth ,and the U.S. is a big place . I used Ohio ,
as think it is about the middle (I am in Europe ) ,but from that, there is no precise ,similarity except for one thing ,the moon is very positive
in both cases ,and the moon usually describes the mother . So for both boys you are a positive figure and loved by both of them .This is the best kind of
indication as love never dies and always seeks to refind the beloved .However ,and whenever your son comes back into your live you will know and that maybe not be yet ,I don't know .We have lessons to learn from loss ,and maybe his purpose is to teach you something .I think that some come down from heaven to help us ,to guide us . Yes, before I heard of Carols book "Return from Heaven", I had the experience of my sister telling me she was
in heaven, but coming back . At that time I was not sure there was actually such a Place , now I am sure that souls who are 'qualified' go there, and
come back to be perfected or to help those they love . Sometimes the lessons are hard and meant to refine us through pain and loss .
 
The last age. said:
Mohy , I am very wary of doing this as the main lesson we have to learn is to love and pray with a pure heart . It is this that gives 'eternal life ',
and I hope your new baby will be loved even if reincarnation is not found in this case . I will see what I can find ,but it may not be what you are looking for .
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Oh I love him whether or not he is my son reborn, he is still my son and I love him even more deeply as he is our miracle when we were at our worst, he is our reason to be alive no matter what.
I am really interested just out of curiosity
He is given me so many signs and this just may or may not be another one
The main sign would be given to me when he starts to talk hopefully
Thanks so much for your kindness
 
mohy7 said:
Oh I love him whether or not he is my son reborn, he is still my son and I love him even more deeply as he is our miracle when we were at our worst, he is our reason to be alive no matter what.
I am really interested just out of curiosity
He is given me so many signs and this just may or may not be another one
The main sign would be given to me when he starts to talk hopefully
Thanks so much for your kindness
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Well those of us who love and lose those we love, all have much in common ,and as the sky says you are a beloved mother in both charts .
It would not be right for me to say one way or other ,but you are correct , you will find out in the not too distant future ,and if he is like my
new grandaughter who is 5 months and is bursting to tell me so much and gets frustrated when it is not yet completely clear as yet, it will not be long .
Children often come to save us ,not the other way round , as parents usually believe .
Oh he will likely be very active and energetic .:D
 
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