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Lakeah

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Hello!

I am not quite sure where to put this, but since it has to do with my daughter I decided to group her in the children section...

My oldest daughter who is 7 has been blessed (in my opinion) to have spontaneous past life memories at 3, which she now forgets--but she has many other specialities too. Also at 3 she would tell us how she sees rainbows around us. Aura's I'm sure. My middle daughter,5, doesn't see them, but my youngest,3, does too. She also has a small angel that lives in her room too-but anyhow this is my question.

Usually when I am putting her to bed I will have her hold her hand up to mine with, say an inch, between our hands. I ask her her color, my color and then the color in the middle. Then about a month ago when we were doing this she said, "whew-my hand is burning up...it is hot!" And pulled it away. She does not know about energy points, etc...My question is what do I do with this? She says it every time now and I have to be careful b/c she is very sensitive about this "stuff"--if I make too big of a deal she totally withdraws. The other night I asked where it was hottest and she pointed to the center of her palm. I believe in healing...but how do I explain or do I, to a 7 yr. old.?

Let me know if this is common--or not?

Peace,

Lakeah
 
Hi Lakeah

First of all, may I say what a joy it was to read what you have been doing with your daughters in encouraging their gifts without making an “issue” of them and instead allowing them to be totally at ease with their natural abilities, it’s so refreshing to see and hear. I believe all children possess the high sensory perception we so often crave in our adult life and paths;)

Like you, I would have concluded that the rainbows your daughter talked about were the auras she was seeing. One thing I’ve noticed about young children (especially babies) is how they so often look ABOVE the heads of people that are “new” to them (or have just walked into the room), then into their face, almost like they are looking directly at our soul energy. Their reactions can tell you a LOT about someone and their mood that day.

As to the actual question at hand, we have had mothers here before talk about their children’s “heat” radiation and such, I shall have to search through some threads after this post and see if I can find any that are relevant to your own query. Essentially, I would have jumped to the same conclusions you have already arrived at, in so far as the energy points factor and the build up of this energy being responsible for the heat. I know as a child myself I always had this thing with my hands and the heat that could emanate from them.

As far as what to do with it all??? I’m hoping a lot more people will be able to offer advice or suggestions, but I thought I’d throw a few ideas and thoughts forward to at least get the ball rolling ;)

If you are trying the less intrusive and gentle ways of getting her to open up to her present feelings or thoughts around this new discovery of the heat… Children are particularly gifted when it comes to being able to “create” and “expose” their inner feelings through other outlets - be it writing, drawing or play - getting your child to tell you a story about what their playtime adventures are about can often uncover a lot more than you would ever expect. Maybe you could ask her to write a story or draw a picture based around this thing you both used to (or still DO do) at night when you place your hands and ask her what colour she sees. Maybe she will reveal more through this creative outlet and as she is not actually voicing her concerns to you, she may be less likely to withdraw from the question.

Keep a journal of anything that comes up and record anything and everything that seems relevant and you will find that it eventually builds up into a bigger and clearer picture over time through all the varied channels and instances that the information and experiences are revealed.

Okay, I searched and found a link to a thread about heat, it’s not exactly the same as your own query, but may help or swing your own mind off on a tangent of thought :)

Children Who Are Always Hot...
 
Thank you for the great suggestions--she is very artistic, so the drawing is a great idea. It's just getting her at the right moment. When she wants to talk about it--she's very open, if not she simply will not do it.

Also, that link was very interesting. It got me thinking, for she and my youngest daughter are also "hot"-- like their dad. My middle one is cool, like me. I do not see aura's, but I have been able to see like a white energy around people since jr. high.

When you spoke of babies looking around you, I also have the same feeling. They are seeing what we do not. I love that.

Actually with my 3 yr. old, a few weeks ago she did that with me--looking all around me. I asked what she was looking at. She smiled and said she saw a rainbow around me.

Thanks for the suggestions and I hope to hear from others too.

Peace,
Lakeah
 
Hi Lakeah

Please let us know how you get on with the drawing suggestion if you manage to “slip it in” - I’d love to hear whether it yields any results. And I guess as far as bringing it up to her, you could just wait until she is next drawing herself through choice and just throw it in as a suggestion then. As you said so yourself, if you push it, it will only cause her to withdraw further away from the topic in question, so just give it time and let her share in her own time if that’s what it takes :)

I guess until then we can all learn a lesson as well – patience – although I never was good with that virtue ;)
 
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