Has anyone been reunited with a past-life spouse or SO?

[TheDivineOne]

Has anyone here been reunited with someone in this life who is the current-life incarnation of their past-life spouse or significant other? Did you marry that person... again?

I'm just asking just for fun; nothing too serious. While I'm on this journey to manifest a reconciliation with my girlfriend back from around 2010-2012, I've been playfully thinking to myself how cool it would be if in our next life (assuming she chooses to reincarnate after this, much more be a human female again) she and I were to meet again and she and I both have this "I feel like we've met somewhere before although I don't know you from a brick on a wall" feeling. I would also love if we both get married in that life too, a same-sex wedding.

To elaborate a bit more, I hadn't realized it at the time, but this woman was the Universe's response to all these lists I kept writing of all the physical traits and personal attributes I wanted in my dream woman. At the time we were on-again-off-again, I kept breaking up with her because I was off-put by her being two years younger than me. According to my many girlfriend wishlists she would've ideally been a few years older than me. She was also a bit dismissive about my cross-gender feelings and my desire to be a woman but still wanted me anyway. I suppose a mod will edit this if it's too inappropriate for the forum but I'll still try to keep it in the G or PG range, but I feel it's worth mentioning that I wanted a top-heavy woman. This individual is and it kind of WAS important to me. Still is actually for pleasure & intimacy purposes.

Man, how lucky was I that my dream girl DID manifest, that the Universe was listening to me and my wishlists this whole entire time and did deliver her to me but I kept rejecting her and wondering why it wasn't manifesting. This stated I would love if we got married in this life, remeet in the next and get married again.

For any of the Star Trek fans on here, the "Rejoined" episode (Season 4, Episode 6) of Star Trek: Deep Space Nine provides a perfect example of what I'd love to experience... a scene in that episode, anyway.

 

[KenJ]

I'm sorry that you did not take advantage of the body you were given to have had a reproductive relationship with her! This is not a homophobic comment, just that it seems like a failure to live the script that was intended before your birth to be with her.

 

[TheDivineOne]

I'm sorry that you did not take advantage of the body you were given to have had a reproductive relationship with her! This is not a homophobic comment, just that it seems like a failure to live the script that was intended before your birth to be with her.

Don't be.

I don't want to procreate with her. I don't want to procreate period. Not with the reproductive organs I have, anyway. I want to be a mom, not a dad. I want to carry and give birth to my own children and breastfeed them, but I guess I'll have to wait until my next life and then ideally 20-something years into then for that to take place so I'll accept condolences for that but I hope she doesn't already have kids or wants any (though the latter seems kind of unlikely). Then again, the idea of giving birth scares the hell out of me. So aside from kissing, all the breast play, and all the other forms of sexual/intimate contact, it hopefully won't be anything that results in having children because I refuse to be a dad, in the relationship or biological variety. Just the idea of someone else carrying my child would bother the hell out of me. But if I were fully transitioned, post-op bottom surgery and all, and I had an FTM partner who is also fully transitioned, then I'd probably consider but since I find myself so drawn back to who I'm reluctant to call my ex because I don't want to put that energy out there that doesn't seem to be an option for me.

Besides even if I did... or we did... it's not too late. I'm 29 now. She's 27. My mom had me at 29, which has been giving me these weird vibes since my birthday this past September, but I'm sure you know already there are people who became parents way after their 20s.

EDIT: Holy cow! 100th post!!!

 

[KenJ]

TDO, I don't understand your "two year" problem, I'm 81 years old and my wife is 61, what am I missing here?

 

[TheDivineOne]

I've always preferred women at least a few years older than me for reasons that older-man-younger-woman relationships seem to be a tad bit more common than the other way around, besides, me wanting to preserve my youth, i feel younger that way. But nowadays, the age gap that's barely even there doesn't seem to bother me anymore. If she were like 18 or 19 and I'm 29, then yeah, no, but the two-year age gap isn't a big deal to me anymore. When did you guys get married if you don't mind me asking?

 

[KenJ]

Twenty-two years ago this year.

 

[Klaud]

Yes, and absolutely not lol. Neither she or myself has any real interest in women this time around. Maybe in our next lifetime, we can try again.


It's not that I don't still care for her, but she's quite a bit older than me and was already married to a very nice man when I ran into her. Might be a little crowded with three of us

 

[Jaimie]

I think I have met a few from my past life/lives in this one but only two were designed to be as they were in a past life -- as friends. I don't think my entire soul group is with me though, but we are likely where we need to be and when the right time comes we will meet again.

About trying to plan the future -- for me it is no use, because I think we are changing. One time someone I know well would always say that she would refuse to "go blond", how she really did not think she would suit in that hair color. i thought nothing of it, but my friend (gifted) said to me "She will be as blond as it gets" in the future. I went "Nooo..." she went "Yep.

I see her (she would have visions of the future, but her visions of me and my future marriage life did not turn out that way)". Then came the day -- she had turned as blond as she could get. I said "What happened ?", she said she had just "changed her mind".

OK, so maybe hair color is not the same as meeting your soulmate again and what roles to play; But I'll say -- see you when you get there (there is no point trying to predict who/what I am gonna be like, less someone else).

Just enjoy the moment and be happy I think lots of us, especially when we are about to become adults, have met the right one and think of maybe starting a family -- that we have an image in our head what it is gonna be like. Sometimes that image can destroy more than it can create, but perhaps that is only my opinion of it.

We stress ourselves over nothing. Like some I know had this idea when being pregnant that they had decided before hand if they wanted a boy or a girl. I couldn't believe it. I went you should be very thankful that you're pregnant and you're healthy and the baby is healthy.

Enjoy the gifts one receive in life instead of trying to mold it into a fix idea, seem you have realized this and see the true beauty in your girlfriend.

Way to go !

/Jaimie

 

[Sunny1994]

Yes, I am currently married to my husband who I was also married to in the 1950's. Neither time has been a cake walk, and I hope that if it happens again, it is much easier on me.

In both lifetimes I've been weak and too forgiving, and he has been the dominate one and easily crushed my soul. But, there's no denying the crazy connection between us.

 

[Li-la]

Yes, but this is a crazy story from past life. It could have been this way: I was married and he left me in anger, I began an affair with soldier who is now reincarnated and is my husband and father of my child. He has no bad memories.

The husband was like Sunny1994, dominant. He could very well be reincarnated to a co-worker where crazy connection still is but no such relationship still. I don't know why we had to path ways. Maybe it is not a choice we have, but we are forced to meet again, and again, and again...what we do with it is up to us.

 

[Li-la]

Yes, I am currently married to my husband who I was also married to in the 1950's. Neither time has been a cake walk, and I hope that if it happens again, it is much easier on me. In both lifetimes I've been weak and too forgiving, and he has been the dominate one and easily crushed my soul. But, there's no denying the crazy connection between us.

I think he needs to do more growing than you do...

 

[TheDivineOne]

I think I have met a few from...

Well, I don't think it's so much that I'm "planning" for it to happen in my next life, so to speak, but it's more that, I like the idea of it. I'm playing with the idea of that. If it happens, great! But even if it doesn't it's all good, but as long as I have a female body next life, I'm good, but it would still be nice if next life we get to be together and have some kind of a connection, even if it's just a non-romantic one, and I at the very least would love to rekindle our romance & intimacy in this life while it's still on-going. I for one am certainly not going to wait until next life to be together, I wish to resume and live out our romance and be with her again here and now.

Edit to add:

Like some I know had this idea when being pregnant that they had decided before hand if they wanted a boy or a girl. I couldn't believe it. I went you should be very thankful that you're pregnant and you're healthy and the baby is healthy.

It's interesting you use this analogy, the reason being that a lot of people from when I was in high school onward who were expecting or talked about having children would always say they wanted a boy or hope for a boy but never have I ever hear someone other than myself say they want a girl and if I did, I don't remember. It would always annoy me in such a way that they should be hit with the "Would you love your child any more or just the same if it were a girl?" question. But then again, admittedly, I prefer having a girl over a boy, and honestly, I don't know if I'd love my male baby the same ways I would a female baby, so since I live in a glass house I don't know that I'm any better than all the people who prefer having male babies over female babies.

Another edit:
My mum wanted a boy. Look how that turned out.

Yes, but this is a crazy story from past life. ...

It sounds to me that you guys were together that time for a reason, or that there was something you two were supposed to do or learn together but failed it last time... and were forced back together this time around to complete... whatever it was you guys were supposed to do or learn last time around. But it sounds wild that last life, you cheated with the soldier guy, and in this life you and the soldier guy got married and had kids this time in this life. Do I have that right?

 

[Li-la]

Well, I don't think it's so much that I'm "planning" for it to happen in my next life, so to speak, but it's more that, I like the idea of it. I'm playing with the idea of that. If it happens, great! But even if it doesn't it's all good, but as long as I have a female body next life, I'm good, but it would still be nice if next life we get to be together and have some kind of a connection, even if it's just a non-romantic one, and I at the very least would love to rekindle our romance & intimacy in this life while it's still on-going. I for one am certainly not going to wait until next life to be together, I wish to resume and live out our romance and be with her again here and now.

Edit to add:



It's interesting you use this analogy, the reason being that a lot of people from when I was in high school onward who were expecting or talked about having children would always say they wanted a boy or hope for a boy but never have I ever hear someone other than myself say they want a girl and if I did, I don't remember. It would always annoy me in such a way that they should be hit with the "Would you love your child any more or just the same if it were a girl?" question. But then again, admittedly, I prefer having a girl over a boy, and honestly, I don't know if I'd love my male baby the same ways I would a female baby, so since I live in a glass house I don't know that I'm any better than all the people who prefer having male babies over female babies.

Another edit:
My mum wanted a boy. Look how that turned out.



It sounds to me that you guys were together that time for a reason, or that there was something you two were supposed to do or learn together but failed it last time... and were forced back together this time around to complete... whatever it was you guys were supposed to do or learn last time around. But it sounds wild that last life, you cheated with the soldier guy, and in this life you and the soldier guy got married and had kids this time in this life. Do I have that right?

Yes. Is it the other way around this time. Only this time I intend to stay with my "Joe", and not cheat on him. I wish to correct my story a little. When the husband from the past life left me my heart was broken. I had traveled all the way from New Zealand to Egypt to be closer to him. It was during WW1. I always think World War and never the 1 that we do, not knowing there would be a second. I was working at a hospital. His injured soldiers came in. My husband came too, but it was to visit his injured soldiers. He was a general. When he found me in the hospital he got very angry with me. I had not asked of his permission to leave to work there. I thought he was out of my life when he left me at the hospital. That if he found the time he would divorce me. One of his injured soldiers, Joe, tried to cheer me up. We became friends and then something else. We fell in love. He would call me Mrs and then his own last name. He died during the war. My estranged husband wanted me back. I returned. We tried to move on, but things were not the same.

Best Wishes

Li La

 

[KenJ]

We tried to move on, but things were not the same.

Yep, you can not step in the same river twice.

 

[Grel]

With my current life partner, I met her through a friend. The moment we met, we both said, I know you!
I am not sure the Dynamics of our lives in another life, but we just click. We argue but never have hard feelings. It's more than that... A sense of deep connection and completion. We're both females, but our friends tell us we are soulmates.
-Grel

 

[LadyRosemary]

i, myself now am engaged to be married to my partner and soulmate, who was my dad in the Bernadette lifetime. through him i have learned we have had 14+ lifetimes together. he is 21 and i am 37 years old now. we may disagree on things, but we never have fought, not one time.

 

[Li-la]

i, myself now am engaged to be married to my partner and soulmate, who was my dad in the Bernadette lifetime. through him i have learned we have had 14+ lifetimes together. he is 21 and i am 37 years old now. we may disagree on things, but we never have fought, not one time.

I'm happy for you.

Best Wishes

Li La

 

[girlinblue]

I have never again met my love from my PL. I do though, believe he has graduated from reincarnation and is at peace now. I know we will meet again when my time on earth is done, but I can’t say it’s easy. I met this young man in my PL, his name was Abel. I know it may sound odd, but I am in love with him to this day. It’s (technically) been over 150 years since I’ve seen his face, but it always feels like yesterday. I do consider that a blessing. I always prayed we’d meet again in this life, but God had other plans, and that’s okay. I miss him with every fiber of my being, I physically yearn for him sometimes. I carry him in my heart everywhere I go. I have found love in this life, but I believe it is like losing a spouse and re-marrying. You love them, but differently. I know in my heart that Abel is my soulmate, time after time. I don’t wish my life away, but I know who I will run to when I reach the gates of Heaven.

 

[Polaris8]

Has anyone here been reunited with someone in this life who is the current-life incarnation of their past-life spouse or significant other? Did you marry that person... again?

I'm just asking just for fun; nothing too serious. While I'm on this journey to manifest a reconciliation with my girlfriend back from around 2010-2012, I've been playfully thinking to myself how cool it would be if in our next life (assuming she chooses to reincarnate after this, much more be a human female again) she and I were to meet again and she and I both have this "I feel like we've met somewhere before although I don't know you from a brick on a wall" feeling. I would also love if we both get married in that life too, a same-sex wedding.

To elaborate a bit more, I hadn't realized it at the time, but this woman was the Universe's response to all these lists I kept writing of all the physical traits and personal attributes I wanted in my dream woman. At the time we were on-again-off-again, I kept breaking up with her because I was off-put by her being two years younger than me. According to my many girlfriend wishlists she would've ideally been a few years older than me. She was also a bit dismissive about my cross-gender feelings and my desire to be a woman but still wanted me anyway. I suppose a mod will edit this if it's too inappropriate for the forum but I'll still try to keep it in the G or PG range, but I feel it's worth mentioning that I wanted a top-heavy woman. This individual is and it kind of WAS important to me. Still is actually for pleasure & intimacy purposes.

Man, how lucky was I that my dream girl DID manifest, that the Universe was listening to me and my wishlists this whole entire time and did deliver her to me but I kept rejecting her and wondering why it wasn't manifesting. This stated I would love if we got married in this life, remeet in the next and get married again.

For any of the Star Trek fans on here, the "Rejoined" episode (Season 4, Episode 6) of Star Trek: Deep Space Nine provides a perfect example of what I'd love to experience... a scene in that episode, anyway.

Divine One,

I'm happy that you met your dream girl again! As I'm sure you have had many lifetimes with this soul and will again no doubt! Bond's of love always bring us back together be it spouse, partners, family, friends and for sure our group soul ect.. I have had three major relationship in my lifetime. I'm 60 now. Each one of them where every different and each of them brought me different lessons to learn about myself and the karma we needed to work out. As most relationships are karmic in nature. I have yet to meet my soul mate i this life if there is such a thing.

My last relationship was about respecting boundary's and learning to say no even if you love the person with all your heart. He had a meth addiction which I was not going to put up with and told him it would be a deal breaker for me and that he need professional help. I gave him another year to get his poo, poo together but he never did. I had to let him go and end it because the relationship was not going anyway plus the drugs were destroying the relationship. He was from the UK so it was long distance. I did love his family as we were together for 7yrs so I do stay in touch with the family. Since then I have been not interested in getting into another LTR. Not that I'm going to meet any one under the current circumstances of the pandemic. So if I don't fall in love again that's ok! better to have loved and lost then never loved at all.

Hang in there my dear and never give up your dreams. Always follow your inner truth which comes from your heart.

Love and peace.

P.

 

[cloud potato]

yes and no.
in this life circumstance would appear to work in favor of keeping us apart. is it a karmic retribution to be painted in such a way or is it just life? although she triggered profound experience she wants nothing to do with me and im okay with that. prior to our reunion i had a tell, at least 6 to 7 wives of an earthly ecperience. all meaningful, they humbly approached me at once. my current life is more about authenticity than it is playing someone elses game. reunions happen as a consequence, things are not the same.

 

[Antigone]

I'm sorry that you did not take advantage of the body you were given to have had a reproductive relationship with her! This is not a homophobic comment, just that it seems like a failure to live the script that was intended before your birth to be with her.

It is my opinion, which I believe to be neither right or wrong, but I personally believe there are no failures in any scripts. And when someone decides to not procreate; it is all good. There are different paths for everyone. There are no failures in this game. Every and any experience is valuable to us.

I also hope you will not be upset at me for saying this Ken, (but I also felt like it was important and wanted to share another viewpoint) please don't be upset! I'm sending you my regards.

 

[Speedwell]

@Antigone You probably have missed the news that sadly Ken is no longer with us - though he may be watching from somewhere...
http://www.reincarnationforum.com/threads/kenj-previos-moderator-and-my-father.9322/

 

[Antigone]

@Antigone You probably have missed the news that sadly Ken is no longer with us - though he may be watching from somewhere...
http://www.reincarnationforum.com/threads/kenj-previos-moderator-and-my-father.9322/

Thank you for letting me know, I will look at that thread you linked as well.
I still hope he is not upset with me and I still send him my very best regards. He was such a neat person and I was hoping to get to know him better. I will miss "seeing" him around here. I wish such a blessed journey for him.

 

[Happy-Thomas A C Tan]

Yes, I am currently married to my husband who I was also married to in the 1950's. Neither time has been a cake walk, and I hope that if it happens again, it is much easier on me.

In both lifetimes I've been weak and too forgiving, and he has been the dominate one and easily crushed my soul. But, there's no denying the crazy connection between us.

Thanks for sharing your testimony Sunny1994.
You are the first one I come across saying that you remarried your past life spouse.
16 years ago, when my wife was dying, she told me that we would reunite as siblings in our future lives. We had an amazingly successful relationship. She asked me to get a grave plot for 2 as she wanted me to be buried beside her when my time is up.

 

[Happy-Thomas A C Tan]

i, myself now am engaged to be married to my partner and soulmate, who was my dad in the Bernadette lifetime. through him i have learned we have had 14+ lifetimes together. he is 21 and i am 37 years old now. we may disagree on things, but we never have fought, not one time.

Thanks for sharing LadyRosemary on your 14+ lifetimes together,
When my wife was dying 17 years ago thing coming Feb 23, she did not want cremation. She wanted to be buried in a grave for two grave so I could join her when my time is up. She said that we would be siblings in our next lives.
May I ask how do you know you had 14+ lifetimes together????

 

[Happy-Thomas A C Tan]

I've always preferred women at least a few years older than me for reasons that older-man-younger-woman relationships seem to be a tad bit more common than the other way around, besides, me wanting to preserve my youth, i feel younger that way. But nowadays, the age gap that's barely even there doesn't seem to bother me anymore. If she were like 18 or 19 and I'm 29, then yeah, no, but the two-year age gap isn't a big deal to me anymore. When did you guys get married if you don't mind me asking?

(1) You asked, 'When did you guys get married if you don't mind me asking?'
I married when I was 28. She was 33.

 

[Rod Turner]

I am absolutely convinced that my wife and I made an agreement to be together in this life.

 

[Happy-Thomas A C Tan]

I did not make any agreement with my wife when she passed more than 16 years ago. However, she requested not to be cremated and wanted me to be buried beside her when my time is up. She also mentioned that we would be siblings in our future lives.
After she passed, I realized that my heart cannot accept another to replace her. Now, I am seeking knowledge on how to reunite with my wife in my next life.

 

[Rod Turner]

I firmly believe that strong intention has a powerful effect on future lives and situations. In fact, I have a meditation audio track I made for myself where I try to project lessons I have learned in this life into my next.

 

[HBC]

I am absolutely convinced that my wife and I made an agreement to be together in this life.

When I met my husband, knowing nothing about one another and without even saying "hello" we went up and hugged, both of us knowing that we would get married. However, I wouldn't call him my "primary" soul mate -- just the one I decided to be with this time around. Sort of like a good and trusted friend. It's a weird thing, realizing immediately, "They're 'the one'! . . . to have a peaceful legal bond with while working through extraneous karma" It was "practicality and patience" at first sight Which was exactly what I needed. You always get what you need, I guess.

I have experienced "love at first sight" once, though -- in that lightning-strike passionate way that blew any doubts I'd had about reincarnation completely out of the water. The strength and complexity of the feelings I had just laying eyes on this guy was absolutely uncanny, and within days of meeting him I became overwhelmed by legitimately psychic dreams about him. Likewise, I felt like he could see right through me. I can only imagine what our past lives together were like! Not "practical and patient," I can tell you that much! But alas, it was not to be. My life was forever changed by meeting him, though, so I imagine we had some kind of an "arrangement" as well. I have no idea what his take on it all was. I know he felt something, but we were young, mid-20's and self-conscious, and the situation was awkward. There was a lot of passion, but it would've been a terrible relationship

Honestly, I'm not sure if I believe in romantic "soul mates" -- I think (in spirit) we know a lot of souls who can play the partnership role in different lifetimes -- but I admit I do see my past life partner as more my "true love" than others. But I haven't met him in this life. As far as I can tell, I felt I'd "fallen behind" him somehow, and decided in this life to become more like him, as opposed to with him. It's certainly incentive to do the spiritual healing work; I do hope to reconnect with that soul eventually. It's a fantasy of mine to meet up with him in our next life and give it another shot. Patience and practicality is nice, and passion definitely has it's appeal, but the steadfast, genuine intimacy I shared with my past life love is the stuff I really long for.