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Firework "fear"

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kc0714

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Hi. Since the age of three, my oldest daughter has been terrified by fireworks...and loud noises. Physically, her ears are fine. I used to joke that she was a soldier who died in battle in a past life. Later, I read CHILDREN'S PAST LIVES and was amazed that Carol's son experienced the same thing!

Since then, I had a reading where the person told me that my daughter died in a battle during the Civil War (without my giving him this background).

My question is...she's now 8 and still scared. Will she "outgrow" this? Or any ideas on helping her to "heal"?
 
Dear KC,

If she is old enough to understand that her fear stems from a past life trauma, then tell her that. At the very least, reassure her that the noises and lights can't hurt her anymore. Sometimes it does take a while to release an old trauma or to desensitive someone so that they feel safe now.

Blessings,

Bob

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my neice is the same way she use to cry hystericaly at the sound of fireworks one time she hid in the back of the car and refuse to come out. she use to go into fits at the sound of construction work like those big drills they have to break up the ground. any loud horendous sound would set her off. so i wonder about her past life too.
 
Hi all

Im sure that all these symptoms would faint out with the time, but it is advisable to work them out later on.
My wife has still her strange fear of walking across a bridge... She is over 50, so in her case the fear never fainted. She is wondering now if she should take a regression therapy or not.

LarryZ
 
Hi everyone!

I grew up in Hawaii and up until last year, celebrating New Years meant tons of fireworks being exploded - not just aerial but the little red ones that you can pop in your garage or out on the streets.

In the morning, the smell of sulfur would linger in the air and the streets would be littered with red paper from the fireworks popped the night before.

When I was very little, I was absolutely terrified of the fireworks. My mother and relatives would try to get me outside but I would kick and cry and scream bloody murder. There was no way anyone could get me outside.
Now that I'm an adult, I've outgrown that fear.

I do know that in a previous lifetime, I was a Native American male who survived two massacres against his tribe (Sand Creek Massacre in 1864 and Washita Massacre in 1868). I believe my early fear of fireworks may well be connected to this past life.

Blessings all!

Jereldeen
 
Hi all,

This is SOOOO interesting. I have a nephew who cannot bare to hear any kind of fireworks without instantly being seized by utter panic... It seems so logical to conclude that this must probably have been caused by an experience during an air raid, bombardment or something along these lines...
 
My 3 1/2 year old son has acted this way w/ fireworks since he was 1 1/2. This year was the worst though. He would usually just cry at the loud booms and let me hold him, then he would feel better. This year, thinking he was older and it wouldn't bother him, we had sparklers for the other kids. He ran screaming hysterically trying to get into the house. He then ran into his room and hid under his bed, still crying and screaming. I felt so awful! So, we put the sparklers away (even though the other kids pouted) and I tried best I could to calm Ian down. He was visibly shaken for a few hours. I then told my husband about the story in Carol's book. He said, he was just thinking the same thing.

julie
 
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