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"Charmingly Odd"

stardis

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Hello all,

It is interesting how many people remember past life events as children. A recent post by a new member, Zengirl, is interesting in this respect. I liked how she told of her sister saying that she was (if I may paraphrase) charmingly odd. A nice complement I would say.

I wonder how many members have been tagged with that same description or perhaps another characterization because of stating past life memories that were received as odd or even inappropriate by others. Were you or are you the source of stories in your family? When you think of your childhood, do you remember saying anything that obviously didn't happen -- in this life?

When I was a small boy, I said that I had drowned once because my feet got tangled up with some lines or ropes. I quickly learned that was not an appropriate thing to say since it had not happened. My friend called me weird, my mother said I was ridiculous and older adults said that children were to be seen and not heard (said with a stern look that sent me off to play alone). It wasn't until years later that I realized that I was remembering something that had happened in another lifetime. That statement, and some others, earned me a reputation as being a little odd, although in a nice way.

What experiences have you had -- as an adult or child -- that have caused people to see you as different?
 
Yes, Me too. Always..even now. My sister just described me as "unique" the other day.


As a child I really was not aware of remembering any past life...although...I often asked my mother when I was 4 or 5 "Why can't I still see people after they go home?" I felt confused and felt it was something that I used to be able to do. Never got a good answer..grin..


I made statements constantly as I grew up as though I had a phone line to God. I would say "people live more than one life...the church is wrong" The church, to me, was always wrong (Catholic) They were always sending people to Hell for one reason or another and I firmly disagreed. I didn't believe in Hell.


I daydreamed for hours and hours. My older sisters would complain to my mother that I was weird.


I told everyone that if I knew how to hold my breath just right or think the right thought....I could float above the ground. I told people when I was about 15 that "before I die, they will find a way to grow new arms and legs on people" It's happening now !! At the time my Mom said "On Florencie your crazy"


I would often make statements " If God would come down here right NOW...he would tell you that the bible is not all correct. I was often very stuck on religion and how men made rules and gave credit to God...making God as petty as men are.


I went to "healing services and wanted to be a Healer. By 18 I had changed my mind as I believed I might lose my soul. I worried that I might believe "I" was the healing power and not GOD


I have a strong belief that in a religious life in the past...I abused power in some way.


Sadly, I seem unable to remember


Also as a child I refused to eat meat or gravy and would not drink milk....maybe that's a carry-over?
 
Florence -- it sounds to me like you're among the first of what many are calling "Indigo Children" and are here to help usher in a better age in human civilization. : angel
 
uuuhh...Nice thread, stardis! :)


First of all - I have to say that it shocks me the way adults sometimes treat children. Phrases like "you're not supposed to take part in adult conversation" sort of hurt to hear. And believe me, I was never, ever treated like that by my parents. I guess they were both - peculiar too. (Thank God! :D ) I'd like to say that things have changed much since you and I were growing up, but I'm afraid they haven't - not as much as they should have IMO.


I've always been labelled "odd". To some people, being odd was charming - but to the majority, well, no, not really. Unpopular was more like it! So, pretty soon I found out that majorities are - clearly overrated! :laugh:


As a kid (6, 7 ish) I used to blurt out english words in the middle of my portuguese sentences. Earlier than that, I used to tell my mother that I had gone away on a journey while sitting in a little bench in front of the kitchen stove. And I always got a kick of thinking that things might not be as we perceive them. :o


My two boys - are blessedly odd too. The oldest loved to fall asleep in my lap while listening to Wagner - the youngest will readily jump into my arms and lay his head on my shoulder to rest - at the mere sight of a Leonard Cohen CD (I have to say that this is the ONLY thing that will get him away from running, climbing and playing.... :) )


And - they are still young :) I wholeheartedly expect their oddness to grow! :laugh:
 
Great thread Stardis. As a child I was definitely one of "those" kids, unique and different. I was a day dreamer. I was frequently admonished by the nuns to focus, "quit starring out the window!!!" I even got slapped a few times for day dreaming...that'll make you conform!! I wonder now at all of those memories I was seeing there in those clouds. I wonder how I would have turned out if one of those nuns would have asked me what I was seeing then.


I was spiritual too (YES, despite being slapped!!:rolleyes:), I even built little altars in the corner of my room...this really cost me some ridicule by neighborhood kids. Later in high school a teacher said to me "you are certainly unique T:tongue:, probably cuz you're SO left handed".


I think that as I got older and finished college I forced myself to conform to the norm. I put my oddity away for a while...but that gave way to all the pressure and I believe reincarnation was one of the truths that burst forth. It is difficult, if not impossible, to resist the forces of creation. It seems that as children we see no purpose to resist..."we don't know better"...but as we grow into self-realization some of us hide from the "uniqueness" and conform. Thankfully (I think: angel) it can't be contained...and if we choose to we can understand it as exampled here on the Past Life Forum.


Good discussion Stardis, Thank you.


Tinkerman
 
How lucky your children are, Welsh!


My mother cannot stand any comment, that is 'odd', I mean which is not according to the monistic-materialistic world view, no matter if I refer to Jung (whose works are also known to her) or Stanislaw Grof.


Wagner is pretty cool, I have used the Ride of the Valkyrie as a ringtone for almost 8 years.


Skarphedinn
 
Ha, no wonder I feel at home here with some many of you being the "odd" ones. :D The phrase that I heard from people who took time to get to know me better was: "she's odd, but good". For most of the people I was still just plain odd. $P$ What can I say... I'm just glad to be here. : angel
 
Reading some of the other posts....I guess I have been lucky. I have always been odd but I have always been popular in any group.


It is common for me to say "Well, in this life" or "In my next life"...But....it is always accompanied by a great big smile or laugh. I am a very cheerful person and a big laugher.


I listen well because I find other people far more interesting than talking about myself. I already know about myself....


So....I attribute my popularity to THESE traits and also the fact that I don't care what others think about my views.


As I look back over the years I probably have influenced many people to investigate and agree with my belief in reincarnation. Not because I told them to....but because I believed it so strongly myself.


If I were to actually decribe myself...I would say I'm very spiritual and I believe there are many planes of existance...others are completely free to believe whatever they wish. We are all responsible for our own souls...
 
Florence, I think you are exactly right. For myself personally it was hard to make sense of all the emotions and energy that I was reading from other people. Especially, where I am from, negative energy was almost a cultural norm. Only recently I am learning to bounce that negative energy off and give my own positive energy back. It's been quite a learning process.
 
Good for YOU Wrinkle!!! Again,...I was lucky to be brought up in a family of women....5 girls and my mom. My mom was a happy and what I would call an "Up" person. She laughed very easily and I guess we all followed suit. Even years later when we would be together for a birtday or holiday it was all laughter...


Negative thinkng can be a habit that people can fall into....sometimes to even get attention.


You have to listen to your brain and catch those negative thoughts and replace them with happy ones.


It CAN be done...it just take work.


I look for the good in everything...including people...It makes your life far happier....not to mention those people that you complimented for something they did well instead of being critical about something you decided they didn't do well.


I'm glad you have made the choice to be positive and happy....It IS all in the attitude.
 
I think having eccentricities in my family , and those eccentricities being talked about helped me to open myself to the possibilities of finding more about myself. I was a late bloomer. I remained trying to fit into the mold until university years... Then it kind of hit me ... Questions about who really was I..


My mother did not mind being a bit odd.. The eccentricity was from her side of the family with a father who really did his own thing.. He was an extremely successful business man . He would go to bussiness meetings in his pajamas, would wear a blanket over his shoulders instead of a coat in the winter and turned down millions, upon millions of dollars just because he was eccentric.. { a long story} ... and there were other wild stories around him-- He did his own thing.


Seeing the oddities in people , knowing that it did not necessarily affect your position has helped me to pursue my own path and determine my own beliefs. I would not recommend always being eccentric as it does have its downfalls as it can be isolating. I recommend a nice balance... making waves when those people around are ready for it??


soulfreindly
 
During my childhood I had a health problem in my eyes. Twice or three times a year, my mother used to take me to the doctor for a normal control. But two hours before she had to give me a specific medicine that (s my family said) drove me mad!!! As soon the medicine was in my body I started to see the most horrid thing...people bleeding, human heads on spikes, people hunging from trees, parts of human bodies aorund...I was terrified! But I was only 5 years old... how a little girl, who had restriccions to watch TV could "invent" this scenarios??? Also I used to talk to them in a different voice.


My family said that I was psycothic because of the medicine...but from where I got this memories??I'm quite sure that the Inquisition time came back to my actual life from a PL.
 
I've never really considered myself as odd or 'unique', however looking back I may have been somewhat different from the others. I preferred playing on my own in the garden - I've always preferred my own company, so I never had any close friends (my only close friend today is my bf...but I'm perfectly fine that way).


In my family spiritualism has been considered odd in a negative way. My grandparents, who introduced me to reincarnation, are to blame for this, because their ways of being spiritual was to get involved in various (moneysucking) sects and do weird things (such as my grandmother travelling on her own to America to a specific mountain with hundreds of others, because they had 'learned' that doom was coming, but that specific mountain and all the souls on it would be saved...My family only managed to get her back to Denmark because I'd been born meanwhile). So spiritualism in my family has always been something you ridicule and get annoyed with.


So I've always been quiet about my beliefs and I've been fine that way :)
 
Oh my gosh Sunniva, I think I remember that. Years ago many many people gathered out west here in the states. They believed the end of the world was coming and gathered there....they would be saved.


Of course....the world is always ending..grin...


The world was ending in 90....91....94.....2000 and now 2012. It seems to be a death wish for some people..


I know what you mean about "Groups" I don't join any either. I am my own group....giggle..
 
Florence said:
I know what you mean about "Groups" I don't join any either. I am my own group....giggle..
I agree! :tongue:


I have to say - I have been very lucky myself too. My parents were wonderful that way (and many other ways too :) ) - as a small child I always felt comfortable with my oddities. As I grew up into my teens, I had their support in helping me to make the most of life and without losing sight of my beliefs and personality - they really did help me out of impopularity very well, LOL! In my very late teens, I was a very outgoing and happy girl. I was still odd - but I was very self confident..!
 
Hi Heart....


I find it very hard to believe that YOU were ever not popular. Your such a sweetheart now...


The truth is....people like to be around "happy" people. If your a sour puss or constantly negative....other people don't want to hear it.


I think Heart, that you were probably very shy and kept to yourself when you were little...I never hear you speak in any negative way.
 
Florence said:
I think Heart, that you were probably very shy and kept to yourself when you were little...I never hear you speak in any negative way.
:) That's true. I was quite shy! You see, I was the kind of girl who is too tall for her age, I was not amazing at sports or anything, and I really liked the piano and my books. I was happy that way - even if I felt a little awkward sometimes...


I grew out of being shy - and that was a good thing, because I've always loved people...


I hate negative - why be negative??? I mean, if something is bothering you for some reason, if there's some sort of problem in your life, dwelling on it and highlighting the bad sides of things?? I'd much rather think that things will work out for the best, and that I'm here, with a healthy body and a strong spirit - and what a blessing that is, eh? :)


My son was telling me about a proverb he heard on Kung ** Panda :D .


"Yesterday is history, tomorrow a mistery - but today - today is a gift. That's why it's called the present"


He was - impressed :) I explained to him that history is a part of who we are now - that it is in who we are now. And that such a wonderful gift as the gift of life (I asked him - doesnt it feel great to just laugh, and talk and sing together as we do? Don't you feel happy when you know I'm making spaghetti and meat balls for dinner? Don't you love it when your little brother kisses you? And I told him that those things ARE the gift of life) - such a wonderful gift cannot be wasted.


He understood... I know he did.


Sorry for rambling a bit :o - ok, a lot. But I hope you'll feel inspired, as I was, to think and delight at the good things in life! :)
 
W.A. HEART said:
My son was telling me about a proverb he heard on Kung ** Panda :D .


"Yesterday is history, tomorrow a mistery - but today - today is a gift. That's why it's called the present"


He was - impressed :) I explained to him that history is a part of who we are now - that it is in who we are now. And that such a wonderful gift as the gift of life (I asked him - doesnt it feel great to just laugh, and talk and sing together as we do? Don't you feel happy when you know I'm making spaghetti and meat balls for dinner? Don't you love it when your little brother kisses you? And I told him that those things ARE the gift of life) - such a wonderful gift cannot be wasted.


:)
Thanks, I needed that!
 
I agree with you Heart about the negative things in life. Solve it...if it cannot be solved....let it go and do not dwell on it....dwelling on it only gives it power. When something is ongoing in my life that is not so wonderful....I don't speak about it. When it's over...and I'm still standing tall.....good.


My favorite way of thinking is that "Everything" is a new life...a new beginning. If you lost your job....OK....it's a new opportunity to start a new life...at a new job.. Doesn't matter what it is....a new job, a new marriage, a new baby...every change for me....becmes a new start, a new life.


lost your house?? Never liked the old one anyway...this is a chance to get a new one you REALLY like. It works for me and it works for my children... Go with the positive is my motto....
 
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