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Hi my name is Libralicious and this is my very first post. This is pretty much the topic that has brought to this forum. Two days after my 19th Birthday I met two Spiritually Awakened boys (New Age Spirituality,Conscious). They believe in the same Spiritual concepts that I do especially, reincarnation and past lives. I remained close friends with one of them, but naturally himself being male and myself being female with a strong common interest we kissed (especially at this young age).wine**

From the beginning our attraction was STRONG. He and I were born in the same state ( New York, Brooklyn ), we both moved to NJ at a young age and went to the same middle school and high school BUT NEVER SPOKE until my last year of high school. I really got to know him and meet him Sunday October 5th, 2014 and that's when I discovered his knowledge of new age spirituality. Since day 3 he wanted to have sex with me. I've never had sex before (at least not in life). I believe you should lose your virginity to someone who loves you but he says hes been so hurt in the past he doesn't believe in emotionally involved relationships anymore. He was frustrated with me for not giving into temptation and I decided to distance myself away from him for that reason.

But I cant shake this feeling that the Universe brought us together for a reason. I asked him if he thinks we met in a past life and he said:"Possibly" the typical answer a person gives when they don't remember their past life. He's a spiritual genius but he's only 17. He has the spiritual knowledge of an advanced soul but the human ego of a 17 year old boy. I feel like we are meant to meet and come together and grow and learn, but his physical body and mind and SO IMMATURE. All he cares about he is having sex with girls, smoking pot, trying to get me to have sex with him. He even told me not to touch him unless Im going to sleep with him. MY POINT IS --- I cant shake this feeling that he's important, that the universe brought us together on purpose, that he can teach me and I can grow from being close with him BUT HIS MIND AND BODY ARE THAT OF A 17 YEAR OLD BOY.

I feel like I may have met him in the Past Life. I dont know how to deal with him. He's just so immature but Im attracted to his spiritual knowledge, we've had in depth conversations about spirituality, reincarnation, past life. Today he hurt my feelings, he told me that I am stupid to wait to have sex with the right person. He basically told me I'm not lovable only likable and nobody is willing to take that time and wait for me to give it up. Which is extremely immature of him... BUT HE'S A SPIRITUAL GENIUS! I have never in my entire life met anybody as spiritually conscious, awakened or believes in reincarnation, karma or past lives BUT HE DOES! SO HE'S SPECIAL! I feel like Im not so alone in the world on how I view life!

What should I do about him? He's not mature enough to communicate with me properly. He just wants to have sex with me but I see some deeper stuff within him. He claims he sees the same in me. I have no desire to have a romantic relationship nor sexual relationship with this boy. I want his knowledge.
 
Welcome to the group. I agree with you. He may have known you in one or more past lives, but he sounds immature currently. Don't let him talk you into anything you don't want. Go with your intuition.
 
argonne1918 said:
Welcome to the group. I agree with you. He may have known you in one or more past lives, but he sounds immature currently. Don't let him talk you into anything you don't want. Go with your intuition.
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My intuition tells me we met for a reason but he's overwhelmingly immature at this stage of the game and I need cut him off until sex isn't the meaning of his life.


But I struggle with this because he's so SMART! I want him to teach me everything he knows spiritually etc.
 
Hi Libralicious


Welcome to the forum.


Yes, it's quite possible you have met before if you have a strong intuition about it. This doesn't mean you have to be in a romantic relationship, certainly not at the moment, if as you say, he is too immature for you.


Just try being friends for now and see how that goes would be my suggestion.

Today he hurt my feelings, he told me that I am stupid to wait to have sex with the right person. He basically told me I'm not lovable only likable and nobody is willing to take that time and wait for me to give it up. Which is extremely immature of him... BUT HE'S A SPIRITUAL GENIUS! I have never in my entire life met anybody as spiritually conscious, awakened or believes in reincarnation, karma or past lives BUT HE DOES! SO HE'S SPECIAL! I feel like Im not so alone in the world on how I view life!
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There are plenty of people in the world, and I am sure you will meet many, who share beliefs in a higher purpose to life. Because you have not met them yet, doesn't mean you have to endure being disrespected by this young man. I would even be hesitant about being friends with someone who spoke to me this way.


What makes you say he's a 'spiritual genius'?
 
I have experience in this area. If the connection between the two of you is at the soul level he will wait ... I met my soulmate when he was around 17 and he was quite sexual, I felt the same way as you do.


He waited ... thirty years.


Never let anyone push you into something you aren't ready for. If they really care about you then your feelings will be more important to them than just having a new sexual partner.


If you want to get to know him better then set the ground rules ... and stick to them ....
 
tanguerra said:
What makes you say he's a 'spiritual genius'?
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Well... When we had our very first REAL conversations he understood the Language. Kundalini, crown, chakra, Soul, reincarnation, star seed, energy, past life, karma, indigo, astral plain, fear is false evidence appearing real, and he had a strong current desire for an Astrological Calendar. He sent me two Youtube videos of "THE TRUTH" and I'm too scared to watch it LMAO


I'm scared I'm not gunna be-able to handle it! From birth I've been a sensitive person (Pisces rising). I had a Kundalini Awakening in 2011 and I'm scared if I watch what ever the hell he sent me it's going to induce another one. The first one terrified me. The fact that he can take in such perspective altering information and not have such a thing happen to him makes me look up to him.


Now that I think of it, when I tell him my Kundalini Awakening story he doesn't seem to believe me. :(He questions if I was on drugs when it happen.:grr:
 
He's a user.


He knows you're spiritual so he will tailor his responses to impress you. He will talk about spiritual matters. A lot of young people are new age. I was ever since I was far younger than 17. It does not make one a spiritual genius.


He's just saying all the right things and wants to get in your pants. Just being honest.
 
I wouldn't call this enlightened. It sounds pretty normal for a kid with random viewing/reading habits, or maybe even family who are into this sort of thing.


Anyone who is nasty to you when you say no to them (especially over sex) isn't wonderful or admirable. Please stay away! That's not okay. Everything you've said screams a warning that he's definitely not someone to hang out with.


Spiritual geniuses do not tend to attack others for not giving them what they want/demand. (sigh)
 
He doesn't sound like a spiritual genius to me. It sounds only like he has beliefs that are similar to yours, but so do thousands of other people. I can understand that you'd feel like he's unusual and like you have a strong connection to him because you have all those things in common. I assure you, though, that this doesn't make him a spiritual genius. It doesn't mean that you've met for a reason or that you knew him in a past life. Even if you did, that doesn't make him the sort of person you'd want as a trustworthy friend, in this life or a past one.


He's disrespecting your feelings and opinions and insulting you just because you don't want to have sex with him. That's not only immature, it's also rude and can be very hurtful.


Personally, I don't think you should keep trying. If you really want to be friends with him, you can try again in many years if he's become a nicer person. For now, I'd just stay away. He doesn't deserve your friendship and needs to learn that it's not ok to treat others that way. I'm sure there are many other boys who are close to you in age, share your worldview, and would treat you as a person and not as an object.
 
I had a club for students at the college I worked for and more than half of them would walking around talking about peoples auras and other things.


I doubt any if them actually understand what they are talking about. But picking up lingo doesn't make anyone a genius.


Old souls are different. You can tell right off the bat if you're observant. They often act like 60 year olds in young peoples bodies.


Regardless, words are meaningless and actions speak louder. Just be careful and procede with caution.
 
I just went through a bit of a similar experience with 2 different boys but I never got too romantic with him. I understand how much fun and interesting it can be to talk to people who are into this stuff especially if they are around your age. I found it very hard to find other people into this stuff at school and when I finally did, it was shocking! I wanted to hold onto this people desperately and become best friends, and sometimes even romantic feelings developed, but there were many obstacles.


One of the boys smoked a lot of weed and he was soooo immature, I just kept shaking my head when I was near him. I could not stand his friends. He was 17 when I met him, I'm 18 now. He also had raging hormones and he talked about sex all the time. He was fun to talk to about this spiritual stuff but it's also very important you set boundaries. If he is making you feel bad for not wanting to have sex with him, then as hard as it sounds, you really should leave him. Tell him that you don't appreciate that. If he still continues to act like that, no matter how good you get along, it's not worth it. You can easily make choices you will regret. Don't worry about not meeting another boy in the future who is also spiritual and you get along with extremely well. It will happen eventually even if it is a couple years from now. Hope this helps.
 
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